Hi Austin, Not sure if you meant to direct your comment towards me as opposed to Jennifer but I am Kelly, the author of the article. Stress is the enemy for sure so whatever your partner can do to reduce that would be helpful all around. Getting to a BMI in the “normal” range is also important especialy if her clinic has suggested this for her. A Mediterranean diet can be very healthy and helpful! I cover a bit of this in an article on this site called IVF Over 40 Success Story: Beating The Odds, amoung other things we did during my successful cycle. Also in that article I am open with the fact that we conceived via donor embryos. Perhaps that is something you and she may consider as an option but it is a very personal decision to every couple. I am not one to give specific medical advice but for that I would definitely suggest to check out my doctor’s (Rahi Victory) YouTube channel. He is a wealth of knowledge and his primary goal is to help people who are TTC, not only his patients but anyone all over the world. He often does Live Q and A’s where he answers everyone’s questions and he streams them on YT, TikTok, Instagram, and Facebook. Whatever social you guys hang out on, just search Dr. Victory and he will pop up on all the platforms. Hop onto one of his lives or message him with a question. He is awesome and more than welcoming to all. I wish you all the best in your journey, good vibes, and positivity always. Kelly

Hello Jennifer, my story is I am 50 and she, my partner is 40 years. Were trying to have IVF ICI. But I am worried about my partner they have told her , her BMI is too high and she is struggling to reduce it. Also mainly her ovary in her womb is very high and egg collection might not be easy. Do you have any helpful advice. As she often gets stressed.

Congratulations on becoming a Mom! There are many unique paths to motherhood and embracing our lives as they play out can bring such joy and satisfaction. I wish you and your family all the best! x

Hi Jennifer 🙂 Thanks so much for your comment. I agree, I believe most people have the best of intentions when asking those personal questions but it can come across as prying! Ultimately, each of us can only control our reaction and response to others’ questions. I’m happy for you that your wedding plans finally came together! Covid lockdowns certainly turned so many things sideways, and I felt a lot of sympathy for couples whose weddings were put off or in limbo the last couple of years. How awesome that your husband and you are on the same page about growing your family! Having a supportive partner is such a blessing…What an adventure you will have! As far as social media, you can find me on Pinterest at https://www.pinterest.ca/Justourviewfromhere/
Also, I just started a Facebook Page at https://www.facebook.com/people/Just-Our-View-From-Here/100088532317364/
I will also add you to my email list and you can reach out to me through email any time.

Best of luck to you and your family!
Kelly

Thanks so much Kim! I’m so glad you enjoyed the article. Covid certainly threw a wrench into a lot of our plans and before we knew it, 20 months have flown by! No time like the present I think… so maybe just give it a go, keep your stress low and see what happens? Sounds like you were super fertile when you had your daughter so that would give me a good bit of hope if were you. If nothing happens within 6 months though, I’d speak to your doctor and possibly get a referral. All the best to you and please keep in touch if you care to do so! 🙂

Hi Isabel, Thanks so much. I see you have a blog too, fantastic! I would love to check out your podcast!